Can you handle HOT-ness?

Im sure we all have a certain list of qualities we would like our partners/lovers to have. I have mine too. I wish for him to be someone whose a good listener, someone who is very very patient, someone who gives me space and etc. I don't need a handsome lad as long as we compliment each other. I don't him to take me to the fanciest 5star hotel restaurants. No sugar daddy's for me, nah uh~ Im fine with just an average chap, honestly.

There might be some people who look for the ideal one. Not that they are th only ones, some of us girls may secretly do too. But I would like to speak in the case of boys. Ramri pani hunu parne re, smart pani hunu parne re, good behaviour hunu parne re i.e. Beauty w brains AND well behaved. Lucky ones do get their prayers answered I guess. Blessed with a beautiful, smart, down-to-earth girl. Damn you, lucky aren't you?

Think again. You aren't the only one who wants an ideal girl. You aren't the only one who has eyes. Do you think there aren't others who wouldn't make her his girlfriend if it weren't for you? THINK AGAIN! Shes pretty. By pretty, Im talking Rosie Hunington + Beyonce + Audrey Hepburn godess kind of pretty mind you!! (okay slightly exaggerated) So obviously she will be popular. And cmon, you know your own kind better than any of us ladies. You know how boys can be. So while you'r w her, there will inevitably (yes, I am bolding that) be countless guys who'd be all over her. Ive seen guys do it too! Walking down th streets arm around their beloved, eyes on a hottie who just walked passed. Must be whistling in his head alr. Not so innocent yourself after all, innit?

It may cause insecurity, frustration and worst of all, the dreaded arguments. But is it her fault she's pretty? Every girl wants, tries and deserves to be. Don't blame her and guilt her for her beauty. I have come across quite a fair share of stories. Girls complaining or 'boasting' - 'Oh my boyfriend gets angry if i talk to other guys', 'Oh my baby doesnt like me in make up.' Oh my bf, my baby BLA BLA. Im like fxck you and your bf. Why care so much?? Why let him confine you? Why change for him??? Isn't it enough that she doesn't flirt back? Isn't it enough that she sees you and only you? Yes, it makes my haemoglobins boil! Whatever happened to trust, loyalty, giving space???

My main point is you gotta learn to live with it. After all, a gorgeous parter could just end up a blessing in disguise maybe? Be careful what you wish for. Jealousy and insecurity is evil. If you can't handle all that? Go date a nice, sweet, big hearted average chick. Its either you have it all OR not.

Lets face it, th world is cruel.