And they said love is blind. Since years and years, I have been hearing this cliched phrase but what I never really understood was the blind part. I mean how can one be blind? When you fall for the other person, you fall for their good qualities, isn't it? You feel like you know th person well enough and that you'r ready.
But oh be warned, that is not true.
It starts to become more about th other person, not just about you. You go miles to make them happy and to always be there for them yet you keep quiet even when you hurt. This is when you slowly become blind to person in front of th mirror. Secondly, you can never know th other person well enough. Perceptions change. You start to discover things about them that you might not like. Deep down you realise there might have been hints all along but you just swept it under th carpet, with not just one eye but both eyes closed. Because at th end of th day, you want to have that person in your life despite th bad rather than not have them at all.
Now this is when you truly become blinded. By love.
You are wrong because you want something from it. You want something out of love. But its not that. There is no “this” or “that” if you really in love. There is just you and you.
ReplyDeletePeople too easily predict love and that is why we are blind, that is what that wise men trying to tell us all.
I once knew this person who chased her childhood love until she turns old and no longer can chase but shadow. Until this day I still never, couldn’t, wouldn’t understand her, what kept her going like that all her life?
जाहा कोई जा नहीं सकता, दस्तुर दुनियाकी
बो छोड़ आये हामे यहा, मन्जूर खुदाकी
बस तेरा पीछा ये जान कबी नछोडे, दुवा हे प्यारकी
Sorry :D forgot you can’t read hindi but if you can that’s the answer to “Love is Blind”
ReplyDeleteProblem with translation is that the moment its translated into English or Nepali, its meaning fade away, doesn’t make sense. In Hindi its called Sayari from mogul empire. And its meaning is beautiful only in Hindi.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I’ll put its meaning into simple as far. Something like this “way of the world is separation and agony is truth, such as this fate of all at end and yet some transcend this to be found or to find”
:D well that is the best I can come up with its meaning. If you understand this miss Numa, you will know you were wrong.
Hardly this days couples tried to find something good in their partners, well if that was the way this world mean to exist, I hardly think god will ever send anyone of us. Because none of us are flawless. Problem is we demand something out of love and relationship. That’s why we are blind.
Are you in love? Or have you BEEN in love?
DeleteAhahaha.... believe me miss Numa, if I was in love or have GF I would have never talk to you in this blog or be interested in your thoughts.
ReplyDeleteI propose a girl once, long time ago. Found out she was only friendly to me to be close with my friend. Ahahah... weird huh...
But I am thankful anyway, if she too was in love with me I would have never made it to state or completed my study. Would have chosen easy profile, probably :)
Never thought of looking to any girls after that. She left me a horrible imprint of how horrible women can be. So in rage I pursue my study even more. I was good at study, got state visa.
I will thank her someday if I ever met her again though, if not for her I would have been some useless charming punk with no brain :)
But I don't mean love sucks, no it doesn't. What I told you above is something I felt truely. I was wrong to judge her then. I fall for her doesn't mean she have to.
ReplyDeleteYou have a good weekend Miss Numa. You take care :)))))))
ReplyDeleteP.S love to prove you wrong :D
Everyday
LOL. man you'r ... Just cuss once it didnt work out, you start generalising?
ReplyDeleteAnd no, by saying all these you aren't proving me/anyone wrong. I just believe in EACH TO HIS OWN and let you rest your case. Tc.